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Why modern women play games when dating and texting

Why modern women play games when dating and texting

It’s been a while since I’ve written an article on dating females, specifically modern females in this new day in age. With the introduction of cell phones, social media and a host of other things…. dealing with females, dating females and even getting laid is becoming more difficult. From canceling last minute due to a better option, you were going to take her to dinner, but then a Chad offered her bottle service at Calvin Harris so she bailed, to waiting hours to text you because she has a million dudes blowing her up. Essentially, it is very substantiated when we find that men are having less sex and less marriages are happening, specifically because men are choosing not to get married (this is backed with studies and statistics). Like I always say, let’s get into this stupid simple concept which is overly complex at the same time because you are messing with beings from another planet.

The issue of cell phones

Cell phones…..these are the bane of modern dating. With the plethora of dating apps, social media, and texting socializing with women should be easier…..but nah its actually harder. These things have only done one thing, make women believe they have more options then they do, but also make it easier for Chad Boys(the top 20%) of men to grab the attention and bang all the women while the bottom 80% of men who only bang an average of 8 women their whole life. Funny enough that this is backed up by several different studies, one specifically done on tinder.

The cell phone has made it easier for women to be flaky and entertain options from all over the world, even though their actual and literal options are very few. When a woman is waiting a while to text you back, it’s not because she is doing something important…. it’s because she is either not interested in you or is entertaining other options AKA texting other men who she’s actually interested in. As the saying goes “Every woman, no matter how attractive or unattractive she is, is having sex with some guy”.

Dating apps and women’s false perception of options

Let me give you a real-life example that surprised the hell out of me and made me realize how weird the world is. I was going through a rough drought and decided to lower my standards to this chick that was reciprocating my texts on bumble about one and a half years ago. She was meh in her pictures, but I was like, yeahhhh I need to get back on the wagon. So I met up with her and was like, damn boi this is a cat fish. Me, being quite fit because I work out a lot, have somewhat of a standard when it comes to chicks so I can confidently say this girl was on the chunky side. We had a quick conversation and she honestly told me she went on 2-3 dates a week. I was like, dude wtf how am I out of this chick’s league, but she is getting 50-100 matches a week. I ended up blowing her off because I mustered up some will power, but she ended up in my bed after blowing me up and I went through with it unfortunately. After going zero dark thirty on her since I was disgusted with myself, she hit me up saying “was I that bad”. Even though I was like, yuhhh, but decided to just ghost into oblivion.

Women are loyal to their options

This is a very hard pill to swallow, but one I’ve learned on both ends of the stick. Women are completely loyal to their options. If she is picking between an average guy and Leonardo DeCaprio, she’s picking my boy Leo every time. You wouldn’t imagine how many times I saw dudes get cheated on in my home town after some rich dude invites his chick on a boat and pretends, he’s interested in her only for the dude to ruthlessly pump and dump her with her begging her ex-bf to take her back. This also happened to my dumb ass lololol. But, I digress. We have a saying back home in the party scene, “Girl’s here only have a boyfriend during the week”.

So how does this factor into the title of this article. You know likeee……when your girl is being distant…when the chick you just met at the club with a nice booty isn’t hitting you back. It’s because she’s texting some chad bum boy who knows how to manipulate women or, which is more typical, she is being entertained by a dude that has money and is in good shape. And typically these guys are banging her or very close to, like I mean she’s probably at his house gobbling his ding dong. If you aren’t on the getting laid part of this equation, please just ignore women until you get your health and finances figured out. I can tell you from experience that it is very lonely and painful at first, but when you get there you get rewarded in more girls that you get to penetrate alongside a nice bank account.

TDLR, lets summarize this

I went on a little rant there, but let me tidy this up a bit. It’s as simple as women have more perceived options, not actual options, and their dating pool is a lot larger. Also, women are very affected by social media, read this article I wrote about it, and it does affect their dating strategy. Most of them think lambos and rolexs are a normal thing, when, realistically, only the top 5% of the population can actually afford those watches where only the top .5% can actually purchase a lambo.

It comes down to focusing on yourself, chasing excellence, and working on your fitness if you want to eventually get into the realm of Chad. So go put in the work, but realistically and statistically you won’t get to enjoy it in the form of banging hot women until you are between the age of 35-40. So I would put off getting married as well so you can actually enjoy your hard work.

If you have any questions email me at thedailynook@gmail.com . I’ll probably post again in like six months, that’s what its looking like right now lmao.